New Year, New Pet: The Joys And Challenges Of Puppy Ownership

January 2, 2025

Over the holidays, many people may have chosen to welcome a new puppy into their families. While those big eyes and wiggly tails may be irresistible, these families may quickly discover that their new addition can bring as much chaos as it does cuteness.

If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed or regretful after welcoming a puppy, you’re not alone — and there are plenty of ways to navigate this stage with optimism and success.

Dr. Lori Teller, a clinical professor at the Texas A&M College of Veterinary Medicine & Biomedical Sciences, shares her expert advice on how to thrive through the ups and downs of puppyhood.

From Bliss To Chaos: The First Few Weeks

Puppyhood isn’t all tail wags and playtime. A new puppy can disrupt your routine, test your patience, and turn your furniture into their personal chew toys — all before breakfast.

“Puppies are adorable, fun, and entertaining, but they will also suck up your free time, urinate on your best rug, and chew up your most expensive shoes,” Teller said. “In other words, expect to feel the full spectrum of emotions and to live in chaos temporarily.”

Preparation is key to setting yourself up for success. Before bringing your new furry friend home, ensure your house is puppy-proofed and stocked with essentials like a crate, chew toys, and a leash.

“Find a veterinarian before finding a puppy and talk about realistic expectations,” Teller said. “Understanding your puppy’s breed — or breed mix — can go a long way in preparing for its behavior and energy levels.”

Smaller breeds often finish teething earlier, while larger breeds may become house-trained faster. Knowing these breed-specific tendencies can help you anticipate what to expect and adjust accordingly.

In addition, establishing a predictable schedule can also make a significant difference. Puppies thrive on routine, and regular meals and potty breaks can help them settle into their new environment more smoothly.

Once your puppy arrives home, be ready to dedicate significant time to meeting its needs — and soaking up all the adorable moments in between.

“If you need to leave the house or get some things done and can’t watch your puppy, make sure to put the pet in a crate or a safe, enclosed space,” Teller said. “It’s important for puppies to learn that it is OK to be alone and to entertain themselves.”

Coping With The Puppy Blues

On the other hand, sleepless nights, chewed-up furniture, and seemingly endless accidents can leave even the most prepared puppy owner feeling overwhelmed. This phase, often referred to as the “puppy blues,” is a common challenge, particularly for first-time owners.

Though puppies’ rapid development — transitioning from chaotic toddlers to mischievous teenagers in just a few months — can be exhausting, there is light at the end of the tunnel. This stage is temporary, and with patience and proper guidance, these early trials lead to a well-adjusted, loving companion, according to Teller.

If the stress feels unmanageable or begins to impact your mental health, don’t hesitate to seek help from a trusted medical professional; likewise, your veterinarian can be an invaluable resource as you navigate the ups and downs of puppyhood.

“They can help you tackle the more challenging aspects of puppyhood, such as housetraining, teething, and getting your puppy to sleep through the night,” Teller said. “Veterinarians can also offer guidance on managing the overwhelming moments that come with this stage.”

Teller also suggests working with a reliable trainer and attending puppy socialization or obedience classes.

“These classes are a great way for your puppy to learn good manners and for you to realize you’re not alone in your frustrations,” Teller said. “Your classmates will be experiencing the same highs and lows, and your puppy will make new friends — and come home exhausted.”

If classes or training aren’t feasible, there are other ways to help you through this stage.

“Consider hiring a dog walker or asking a neighborhood teen for help if you just need a break,” Teller said. “Even short reprieves can make a big difference, recharging your energy and perspective.”

The Reward Of Perseverance

Despite the trials of puppyhood, the reward is undeniable – a loyal, loving companion who is thrilled to see you every single day.

“Take the time early on to invest in training and establish a routine,” Teller said. “One day, you’ll look back and laugh at your dog’s antics during puppyhood.”

As your once-chaotic puppy grows into a cherished member of your family, you may even, perhaps, feel inspired to do it all over again.

Whether your new puppy feels like a bundle of joy or a tiny tornado, remember that patience, preparation, and a little humor will carry you through. And when the dust (and shredded shoe remnants) finally settles, you’ll have a best friend for life.

Pet Talk is a service of the College of Veterinary Medicine & Biomedical Sciences, Texas A&M University. Stories can be viewed on the web at vetmed.tamu.edu/news/pet-talk. Suggestions for future topics may be directed to vmbs-editor@tamu.edu.

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